HOW TO GET SUCCESS IN WHATEVER YOU DO IN LIFE?

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The Past Never Dies...It Kills

I was listening to the songs of the much publicized Shiny Ahuja's 'Ghost' and I read its caption "The Past Never Dies It Kills”. And oh! My God what a caption. I’m just bowled over it. I don't know how the movie is going to be as it's another thriller may be connected to whatever misdeeds one has committed in the past. Though we are not going to talk about the movie so all the movie lovers I’m sorry to disappoint you.

What I wanted to talk about is how life gets screwed up if you don't think straight. I know this is a line from Chetan Bhagat's first novel "Five Point Someone’. So Mr.Bhagat apologies for using your line. Anyway coming to the point of the caption "the Past Never Dies...It Kill”. I find it quite catchy as well as something we all can relate to and like always my stupid mind isn't thinking straight. It has linked this line with common acid attacks taking place in the country these days.

It is very common to hear some jilted lover throwing acid over their so called true love. If she can't be mine she can't be someone else’s. Many of the jilted lovers are either in jail or are roaming about in the city like a free bird, courtesy political contacts and bribery. So what I wanted to give these acid attackers the message is "Sweethearts you should read this line once, may be it might bring in some grey cell in you so that you do not commit such a mistake in future “and this message is also to those for those who are planning for such kind of stuff.

You might be enjoying your life at the moment but dears your karma always pays off. I know I'm sounding like a crazy preacher but I guess sometimes few issues are to be take seriously if not by the government then at least by the countrymen.

All these acid attackers must thank their stars that they are living in India or else if they would have been in a country where there are strict laws, they might have been hanged on till now.Anyways that’s all for today, it’s 1 a.m in my clock I need to get up at seven, quite a tedious job for me:P

Bubye, have a nice day....

:) :)

vartalaap

hai meri samajh se pare aakhir karu bhi to kya karu

apne armano ke liye chalu agey ya apne farzo se bhagta rahoon

rowoon apne kal par ya aaj ko jiyu

samajh se pare hai meri akhir karu bhi to kya karu

dhoondu nayi khushiyon ko ya pehle purane zakhmo ko bharoon

jo mujhe hai pasand uske paas jaau ya fir gairo parr maru

kise nafrat ki nazro se dekhu,sang kis ke pyar se rahu

samajh nahi ata akhir karu bhi to kya karu....

                                                                                       -Raj Prakash Trivedi

agar kuch karna hi hai to ye karo

apne armano ke liye jiyo par apne farzo ko mat bhulo.Apne kadmo par jab tum khade ho jaoge to farz apneaap hi nibha jaoge

rona zindagi ka maksad nahi,kuch karna hi hai to aaj ke liye jiyo taki kal rona na pade

dhoondna hi hai to khushiyon ko dhundho,zakhm to waqt ke sath bhar hi jate hain

Jaana hi hai to uske paas jao jiske sath tumhe apnapan mile kyunki iss duniya me kbhi kabhi apne bhi paraye ho jate hain aur paraye me apno ki chau milti hai

jo nazar aye us se pyar karo,waqt tumhe usse pyar aur nafrat dono hi karna sikha dega

agar kuch karna hi hai to ye karo......

                      

                                                                                                                                  -Harshita Srivastava

                                                                                               -Harshita Srivastava

Giving an advice?? Not that easy

Sometimes giving advices and suggestions to others is so easy. But following it is extremely difficult. I wish following advices could become easier and then mistakes that we commit in our life would lessen as time passed by. Life would have run smoothly with less problems and more of achievements would touch our feet. But human being can never be God and it is expected out of him to be imperfect. He is the one who will keep repeating mistakes. Learned men who have lived on this Earth have always said that learn from your mistakes but it's not that simple. To do this one must have strong will power and determination.
It often happens that when others are giving you advices you feel that they are opposing you but this is not the case.One should be cool enough to take these suggestions in a positive manner.Even if you find the person's point of view wrong,just listen to him once.May be he has got a point on which you had missed out.Talking out to people and interaction helps a lot.One gets open to different ideas and varied thoughts. The horizon of  your thinking widens.
I guess we often lack the manner of making people convince and understand our ideas.If we can explain the true meaning of what we feel without making the listener bored or making him feel that he is wrong. If we want someone to listen to us we should be ready to listen to him first and agree with his views so that he can hold on to your explanations till the end. Because if we don't do so the end result will be nothing less than a heated conversation and a futile attempt to make him/her realize the errors.So patience,maintaining one's cool and the manner of explanation are important tools one needs to use while giving advices.
Some people have the habit of giving unrealistic suggestions.Stay away from them and if you really want to give advice to someone let them be genuine. Even if it is a bit difficult to apply them it is better to make a person aware of the shortcomings and obstacles in the path so that he/she is prepared for it.
And the biggest lesson in life we as human beings need to learn is APPLYING THE ADVICES GIVEN TO OTHERS IN OUR LIFE. It is acceptable that all of  the teachings and preachings are tried and tested but yes do try to work them out in your life after recommending them to others.Trust me Life is gonna be definitely better than before...:) :)

I SURRENDER

I surrender everything to you

I am heart broken

I've been defeated in the battle of life

I am shattered

I have no reason to live

O my Lord you are my only strength

There is no hope

There are no more expectations

There is no happiness

There is no one to love

Everything is over

My world is barren

I have no one but you

The Almighty,the whole of this

Universe believes in you

You give the best to everyone

So please give me the gift of death

I finish myself at your feet

I surrender everything to you

                                                                                 -Harshita Srivastava

The Past and The Present

Times have changed,

Circumstances have changed,

You have changed,

I have changed.

Remember the time when

we saw each other silently.

Remember the time when

our heart skipped a beat

on just looking at each other.

Remember the time when

just one glance made our day.

Remember the time when

we came at the terrace just

to have one sight of each other.

Remember the time when

silence did all the talking

Remember the time when

you drew my picture just

to see a smile on my face.

Remember the time when

we talked to each other for the first time

Remember the time when

my one smile made you

give treat to your friends.

Well those were the days

And now its the present

It's been fifteen years

And we are seeing each other again

I am with my husband

And you are still alone

I wish I was by your side

And you would be smiling

I know you haven't laughed for years

And somewhere it has been my fault

I wish I could bring it all back

But times have changed

Circumstances have changed

The only thing that hasn't changed

Is Our 'Love' for each other

                                                                                                               -Harshita Srivastava

It still hurts

It’s been long since you left me,
It’s been ages since I had a talk with you,
It’s been months since I last saw you,
It’s been long since I touched you,
It’s been ages since I hugged you,
It’s been months since I kissed you,
It’s been long since I sat next to you,
It’s been months since I ate ice cream with you,
It’s been ages since we studied together,
It’s been long since I laughed like I used to before,
It’s been months since I gave time to myself,
It’s been ages since I cried,
My smile left me,
My tears have also left me,
My emotions left me,
Since the day you left me,
Everything which was mine left me.
It’s been long…But it still hurts…….
It still hurts to be away from you,
It still hurts to sit alone,
It still hurts to have silent days 
It still hurts to have quiet nights.
It still hurts to be myself again.
It still hurts
It still hurts
It still hurts…
                                                                                           -Harshita Srivastava