vartalaap

hai meri samajh se pare aakhir karu bhi to kya karu

apne armano ke liye chalu agey ya apne farzo se bhagta rahoon

rowoon apne kal par ya aaj ko jiyu

samajh se pare hai meri akhir karu bhi to kya karu

dhoondu nayi khushiyon ko ya pehle purane zakhmo ko bharoon

jo mujhe hai pasand uske paas jaau ya fir gairo parr maru

kise nafrat ki nazro se dekhu,sang kis ke pyar se rahu

samajh nahi ata akhir karu bhi to kya karu....

                                                                                       -Raj Prakash Trivedi

agar kuch karna hi hai to ye karo

apne armano ke liye jiyo par apne farzo ko mat bhulo.Apne kadmo par jab tum khade ho jaoge to farz apneaap hi nibha jaoge

rona zindagi ka maksad nahi,kuch karna hi hai to aaj ke liye jiyo taki kal rona na pade

dhoondna hi hai to khushiyon ko dhundho,zakhm to waqt ke sath bhar hi jate hain

Jaana hi hai to uske paas jao jiske sath tumhe apnapan mile kyunki iss duniya me kbhi kabhi apne bhi paraye ho jate hain aur paraye me apno ki chau milti hai

jo nazar aye us se pyar karo,waqt tumhe usse pyar aur nafrat dono hi karna sikha dega

agar kuch karna hi hai to ye karo......

                      

                                                                                                                                  -Harshita Srivastava

                                                                                               -Harshita Srivastava

Giving an advice?? Not that easy

Sometimes giving advices and suggestions to others is so easy. But following it is extremely difficult. I wish following advices could become easier and then mistakes that we commit in our life would lessen as time passed by. Life would have run smoothly with less problems and more of achievements would touch our feet. But human being can never be God and it is expected out of him to be imperfect. He is the one who will keep repeating mistakes. Learned men who have lived on this Earth have always said that learn from your mistakes but it's not that simple. To do this one must have strong will power and determination.
It often happens that when others are giving you advices you feel that they are opposing you but this is not the case.One should be cool enough to take these suggestions in a positive manner.Even if you find the person's point of view wrong,just listen to him once.May be he has got a point on which you had missed out.Talking out to people and interaction helps a lot.One gets open to different ideas and varied thoughts. The horizon of  your thinking widens.
I guess we often lack the manner of making people convince and understand our ideas.If we can explain the true meaning of what we feel without making the listener bored or making him feel that he is wrong. If we want someone to listen to us we should be ready to listen to him first and agree with his views so that he can hold on to your explanations till the end. Because if we don't do so the end result will be nothing less than a heated conversation and a futile attempt to make him/her realize the errors.So patience,maintaining one's cool and the manner of explanation are important tools one needs to use while giving advices.
Some people have the habit of giving unrealistic suggestions.Stay away from them and if you really want to give advice to someone let them be genuine. Even if it is a bit difficult to apply them it is better to make a person aware of the shortcomings and obstacles in the path so that he/she is prepared for it.
And the biggest lesson in life we as human beings need to learn is APPLYING THE ADVICES GIVEN TO OTHERS IN OUR LIFE. It is acceptable that all of  the teachings and preachings are tried and tested but yes do try to work them out in your life after recommending them to others.Trust me Life is gonna be definitely better than before...:) :)

I SURRENDER

I surrender everything to you

I am heart broken

I've been defeated in the battle of life

I am shattered

I have no reason to live

O my Lord you are my only strength

There is no hope

There are no more expectations

There is no happiness

There is no one to love

Everything is over

My world is barren

I have no one but you

The Almighty,the whole of this

Universe believes in you

You give the best to everyone

So please give me the gift of death

I finish myself at your feet

I surrender everything to you

                                                                                 -Harshita Srivastava

The Past and The Present

Times have changed,

Circumstances have changed,

You have changed,

I have changed.

Remember the time when

we saw each other silently.

Remember the time when

our heart skipped a beat

on just looking at each other.

Remember the time when

just one glance made our day.

Remember the time when

we came at the terrace just

to have one sight of each other.

Remember the time when

silence did all the talking

Remember the time when

you drew my picture just

to see a smile on my face.

Remember the time when

we talked to each other for the first time

Remember the time when

my one smile made you

give treat to your friends.

Well those were the days

And now its the present

It's been fifteen years

And we are seeing each other again

I am with my husband

And you are still alone

I wish I was by your side

And you would be smiling

I know you haven't laughed for years

And somewhere it has been my fault

I wish I could bring it all back

But times have changed

Circumstances have changed

The only thing that hasn't changed

Is Our 'Love' for each other

                                                                                                               -Harshita Srivastava

It still hurts

It’s been long since you left me,
It’s been ages since I had a talk with you,
It’s been months since I last saw you,
It’s been long since I touched you,
It’s been ages since I hugged you,
It’s been months since I kissed you,
It’s been long since I sat next to you,
It’s been months since I ate ice cream with you,
It’s been ages since we studied together,
It’s been long since I laughed like I used to before,
It’s been months since I gave time to myself,
It’s been ages since I cried,
My smile left me,
My tears have also left me,
My emotions left me,
Since the day you left me,
Everything which was mine left me.
It’s been long…But it still hurts…….
It still hurts to be away from you,
It still hurts to sit alone,
It still hurts to have silent days 
It still hurts to have quiet nights.
It still hurts to be myself again.
It still hurts
It still hurts
It still hurts…
                                                                                           -Harshita Srivastava

I am sorry

You are away from me 
still close to me more than anyone else 
Today I fought with you
I've hurt you I know
But I've hurt myself more
I spoke more than I should have
I am sorry
I know I always say the same thing
And I repeat it again and again
I'm stupid and I'm kiddish
I'm extremely sorry sweetheart
I love you a lot
But sometimes I lose my senses
I lose the ability to think
You know I'm too stubborn
And I don't accept my mistake
But today I'm brave enough to say
It was my mistake
And if I've been able to speak out this
It's been just because of you
I know sorry can't fill the space of anger
But I can't bear this silence
I'm accustomed to listening to your voice
Every hour,every minute,every second
But it's been two hours
And my phone hasn't rung yet
I am waiting but this moment isn't passing by
I am too weak to ask for punishment
But if by this act I get you back
I'm ready to do this even
But please don't go away from me
I'm sorry my eddy teddy...
Love u loads... 
                                                                                                    -Harshita Srivastava

May be.....

An expression of my thoughts written few hours ago..

Here I am standing on the road,
Not knowing where to go
I see the vehicles pass by
But none stops for me
Everyone here has a destination to reach
But why don't I have one
I can see my world shattering
But I can't do anything about it
I am so helpless
But I have the urge to fight it all
Should I start from somewhere
And reach anywhere
May be in the middle of it
I find something to bring
A meaning to my life
May be I find the people I've lost
May be I find happiness
May be I should start right now
May be I should have never stopped....
                                                                                            -Harshita Srivastava

It's Breakup Day today...

Love..the most beautiful and the purest of all emotions in this world. Love can bring the happiest moments of your life though it can also give you the most painful wounds if you don't get love in any form.Let's not talk about the painful love today.It's breakup day today but let us keep love as the happy part of our lives.Every thing has a positive aspect as well as negative aspect and so does love. Those people who have the love of their life may be knowing this very well that love is wonderful and it can't be expressed in words.

  The love week has just gone by and we have seen so many youngsters getting committed during this time promising to be by each other's side forever and many more sappy stuff.Initially all goes well but later on we find many of them breaking up.What people don't understand is that if there is happiness today then sadness will surely come by.This is not a fairytale,it's life and life is full of ups and downs.Every relation has some misunderstandings,some conflicts and fights but that doesn't mean that breakup is the only solution.Don't we fight with our friends and family members but do we ever stop talking to them?? Don't we apologize to our friends?? Then what stops us from apologizing to our partner,what stops us from clearing misunderstandings between each other?? We just fight and argue.Can't we just leave it all?Can't we just ignore a mistake made by our love?Isn't he/she a human??

  "To err is human,to forgive is divine"

Don't we all know this?? We all have learnt this saying but have we ever tried to understand it.Forgiveness is a virtue which is equivalent to the goodness of the Almighty.Making mistakes is a part of life and if you don't make mistakes you'll never be able to master the art of living.Same is the case with forgiveness.If your loved one makes a mistake it is your duty to forgive him/her,not finish off the relation.

 If all of us realize the true value of relationships then won't this world become a better place to live in??

There would be lesser number of wars,murders,suicides and other crimes.Many a cases of murders are due to betrayal in love.We have seen so many cases of acid attacks.Reason:jilted lovers.What I don't understand is if you actually love a person then how can you ever think of harming her.So many youngsters commit suicide these days because of breakups and problems in their love life but why don't they think that if today there is sorrow and hardships in their life then tomorrow they are definitely going to have a lovely and shady life.

  "Ghum ka ye pal guzar jayega fir koi humsafar ayega"

  I guess majority of us have heard the above lines of the song "Bikhri bikhri" from the movie "What's your Rashee?" but have we ever tried to analyse the meaning of the words.This song has a beautiful lyrics.I would say listen to this song once again and think about the phase through which your life is going.If there is an obstacle in your life it is God's way to make you strong and if there is happiness then be thankful that you are fortunate enough to have a beautiful life filled with joys and don't be afraid of sorrows and obstacles because life is full of experiences whether good or bad..

That's Life sweetheart...Live it,face it!!!!